Archive for May 18th, 2009
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YOUR MARITAL HEALTH/FINDING OUT WHO’S THE MATTER WITH US: COLD
SEXUAL PROBLEMS – PROLONGED CONTEMPLATION PROLONGED CONTEMPLATION: I think I start to think things over before it’s over. That is, I start to feel empty even when he’s in me. I think, Oh well, at least I’m getting held. That’s more than I usually get.. I even start to cry, but 1 cover it up [...]
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THE DESEXUALIZATION OF THE AMERICAN MARRIAGE/A SEXUAL-SYSTEM EXAM: “ADAPTED” TO SEX – ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTIONS THAT CAN BE ASKED OF A MARRIAGE
One of the most important questions that can be asked of a marriage is “Can you name the worst crisis your marriage has experienced and tell me how your marriage dealt with it?” Adaptive marriages clearly are stronger for their pain, and maladaptive marriages report a weakening and a worsening of long-standing problems with each [...]